<h4>Link Time!</h4>

Check out the following article on Match.com.

Are You Being Too Picky?

Basically the author advises us that attractiveness is not an acceptable quality to look for in a potential match. We should only judge matches on non-physical attributes: three attributes to be precise. If a match hits all three after the first date, he is entitled to another. No matter what.

I get it. The author is assuming we don't give matches a sufficient shot at a connection. It's easy to believe first impressions--but is that wrong? Maybe chemistry and physical attraction aren't present from the moment you meet. For the record, I've been on dates--too many dates--with guys that were nice and charismatic and funny and smart and definitely like-able. I didn't want them. I should want them, right? I don't think it's too much to ask.

Bottom line: Listen to your gut.