<h4>Profile No-No: You Tell Me</h4>

I know filling out your online profile is a little daunting especially if you're the type of person who doesn't like sharing details or taking risks. But when that question comes up "What are your best qualities?" or "What do people notice about you first?" dooooooooon't, don't, don't, DON'T write 

You tell me.

How lame. I have no idea why someone would like you and furthermore, I'm not any more inclined to meet you after reading that empty statement. It's not coy or alluring. It's a cop-out. Just come up with something! Ask your mom! Ask your friend! Make a joke! Divert the question! Something!