Breaking up is hard to do. So is getting back your stuff. Letting a guy know you're not interested... is also very difficult.
So you've been on more than one date and you're pretty sure he doesn't have the goods. He's a great guy and you enjoy your time with him but frankly, the idea of kissing him doesn't light you up inside. What do you do? How long before you feel like you're leading him on? How would you tell him what you're feeling?
I've heard guys appreciate candid honesty. Now, I don't know about you but candid honesty with strangers freaks me the freak out. That's why my horrible, unadvisable habit is to totally drop all communication. Repeat: horrible and unadvisable.
One more time: If you find yourself in the situation where you need to break ties with a dude, appreciate his feelings and notify him (preferably in person, secondly over the phone) of your intentions with candid honesty. I think you all know why this is true. So I won't talk about it.
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